1. Stand as a Courtesan. Trust in your Presence. Draw him in with your desire. Prepare for his arrival. Let him come in his own time. Enjoy your endeavors.
2.Listen for how to love him. Care and he will begin to trust you. Offer compassion and he will reveal himself. Hear him and you will know what he yearns for.
3. Appreciate who he is. See him for more than his appearance, for more than what he does, for more than how much money he makes, for more than what he can give you. See him -- past your judgments, expectations, prejudice and family history. See him -- as Divine. Believe in him. Give him back to himself.
4. Captivate him with your pleasure and your passion for life. Model everything. Slow him down. Awaken his senses. Intrigue him with a possibility. Arouse his desire. Take your pleasure.
5. Take him beyond what he knows. Explore and appreciate the intimacy of his body. Expand the boundaries of his mind. Initiate his union with the Divine.
Receive him completely. Love him unconditionally. Drink him into your soul.
6. Embrace his vulnerability. Let him rest in your arms. Accept his gift.
7. Let him go in deep love. Surrender to the experience. Express your deep gratitude. Trust your mark on his soul. Let him know he is free.
And so I shall try.
What about you? How do you bring out the hero within your partner? How can we love and support, rather than belittle and denigrate?
from Jill Rogers’ Seven Sacred Steps
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