She's transforming

She's transforming, as she's learning the new rules of the game of change.

She's given up resisting & fighting the parts she wants to transform. She's deciding to love them instead. And then they change. At the other end, she's also given up defending her most vulnerable parts. These hold her deepest fears, and she's long been trained to fend it from anyone wanting to reach there, including herself.

She's discovering that her vulnerability, which she was claiming as uniquely hers, is a reflection of a larger reality. 'What is most personal is most universal', said Carl Rogers. She's neither fighting nor running away.

She's re-training as the defenceless, and paradoxically, she's becoming more empowered.

Sukhvinder Sircar